Despite our greater advantages in tech that promise connectivity-- we are increasingly disconnected
I. Loneliness is Prevalent
A. Psychology Today: “There is no more destructive influence on physical and mental health than the isolation of you from me and of us from them….”
II. Life of Joseph: Lesson on Loneliness
A. Sold into slavery by his own brothers: Genesis 37:18-28
B.Opportunity for company: Genesis 39:6-7
C. Substitutions for real connection: Genesis 39:8-12
1. Technology/ Social Media
a. Carnegie Mellon University Study 1998: “More time people spent online, the more depressed and lonely they became.”
b. Nomophobia= the fear of being phoneless
D. We are wired to have connection
E. Yet being alone can be useful
1. Physical separation can be a spiritual connection
III. Overcome The Fear of Being Alone
A. Be Courageous
1. Caught between two fears: Fear of being alone and fear of being known
B. Trust God is with you
C. Compassion for Others
1. You could be the answer to someone else’s prayer of loneliness
2. The cure for lonely hearts can be compassionate eyes